Have you ever heard of this ual problem?????

I have the weirdest problem imaginable. My LOVE for my boyfriend (I LOVE him like crazy!!!) prevents me from getting excited ually. When he is just close to me, caresses me in ual way, I get sooooo overwhelmed by my feelings and emotions that I cannot respond by arousal. I just scream how much I love him (which he doesn't find to be a turn on), and how much I want him to be happy, healthy and so on. I feel love in my lungs (like they are so full),and I don't feel any arousal in the lower parts of my body. We are together for 6 years. My history is that my best always was with men I didn't love at all (one night stands and short affairs). It started with my bf same way, untill I fell in love. What do I do? Is there any way to connect love and desire ???